Gergen, K. J. (2009). Relational Being: Beyond Self and community. Oxford: Oxford University Press. (originally printed in the
Psychotherapy and the Arts newsletter, (2010).
Timing is everything when it comes to book and ideas, and this book by Ken Gergen arrived just at the right moment for me in my intellectual and professional life. My work over many years with people with dementia had underlined the centrality of relationship, for as so often happens, people in extreme situations of need can point the way to what are the really important things for human beings. Through the people with dementia, I became aware that our society’s over-emphasis on the individual without regard to relationship and context can serve to pathologise individuals and rob people of their personhood. This added to my studies in person- centred practice and post -modern thought, made me more than ready to engage with Gergen’s ideas.